Part I In your 20s, it is not a thought, you rest assured that Mr or Miss Oga is on the way. Then when you can sight the 3rd floor, you may start wondering and actively hoping and praying that it happens before you hit the big 3-0! At this stage, humans won’t let you rest, they seem to believe that the more your unmarried state is discussed, the better pressured you feel to ‘take action’. What is action? For a Christian maybe – pray and fast more, go out more, dress up more deliberately to catch his/her eye, join a group in church - make it a big church so the probability is higher. Anyways for some, you then cross the big 3-0 and you are still here 😊 and no, the world didn’t come an end. In my opinion, the toughest stages are between 28 -33 or maybe 35. If you are 35 and are unmarried, hopefully, you have gone past crying and self-doubts to just living your reality, whilst still hoping for the dude/babe or choosing celibacy. Part II I understand that some feel that because they are