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Nicholas

Your calmness
Your hoarding of words
Your ‘perceived’ innocence
Everything you say feels genuine

Although not to me but to Tarri
I admire your approach towards her
See that sendless jump of excitement you expressed when she was saved from eviction
Tears refused to remain where they belong at the sight of the farewell hug too.

Broz, I too gbadun you!
Of course I know its surface level admiration
But kai!…..I covet something you have even though I can’t tie it to an English word
My blood jumps
I hope we get to meet on this end of the planet
If not, all the best mate!!!
……….your splendid voice is a topic for another day!

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