Emotional Wahala…….

Emotion left on her own will depreciate someday

While alive and in flames it seems as if you’ll be consumed if you don’t express her or the other party doesn’t react in the desired direction.

She can bear many children ranging from flings to crushes

to outright obsession

and sometimes Love.

Emotion on her own is healthy and she keeps the engine of relationships running. The kind we speak of in this note is when she ain’t mutual (or seemingly so).

Emotion in this context: a state where your blood literally jumps out of your veins at the mention or sight of anything that concerneth the igniting party.

Where you wait by your phone literally praying that a call comes in or you refresh your inbox like a gazillion times expecting an unsent message.

Truth is, we have no control over these emotions; we don’t solicit for her birth.

She just comes upon us suddenly. The only way out is managing her by putting her where she belongs.

Oh yes there are solutions even if her birth can’t be controlled.

3 I know;

1. express your feelings

2. create a distance (for sometime)

3. Praying works too o, I’m serious! There are some kind of crushes that u know ‘if u don’t take to the Lord in prayer’ she will crush you…