Of Pain and Heartbreaks

What do humans do with pain and heartbreaks?

Who do they talk to about it?

To God?

To God alone?

To God and man?

To man alone?

To spouse and partner?

To biological family?

To neighbours?

To local spiritual family?

To spiritual family, universal?

To only clergy?

To friends met on Life’s journey?

To colleagues and business partners?

To professionals – counsellors, therapists, and emotional coaches?

To strangers?

To social media?

To God alone?

To God and man?

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O7.08.2021

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My 21st Century Luf!

My Dear, just remain spotless for me and note the following key things for ‘it’ to work. • Abeg, no let dem sack you from your office becos u know say e no go b my fault if I …….. • No form of challenge should come o, it will spoil everything. May e just dey sweet dey go. • No place any demand on my luf, no inconvenience me generali! • No get any form of accident or let hot water pour for your body o because I go gatz waka The Barriers • Temporary distance nah barrier • Weight nah barrier • Family background nah barrier • Lack of cash nah barrier • Height nah barrier * Abeg no forget, no dey commot without make up! ……….no more words, no wonder it lasts for so long!

Emotional Wahala…….

Emotion left on her own will depreciate someday While alive and in flames it seems as if you’ll be consumed if you don’t express her or the other party doesn’t react in the desired direction. She can bear many children ranging from flings to crushes to outright obsession and sometimes Love. Emotion on her own is healthy and she keeps the engine of relationships running. The kind we speak of in this note is when she ain’t mutual (or seemingly so). Emotion in this context: a state where your blood literally jumps out of your veins at the mention or sight of anything that concerneth the igniting party. Where you wait by your phone literally praying that a call comes in or you refresh your inbox like a gazillion times expecting an unsent message. Truth is, we have no control over these emotions; we don’t solicit for her birth. She just comes upon us suddenly. The only way out is managing her by putting her where she belongs. Oh yes there are solutions even if...

the complete package

This principle states that in accepting the strengths of a person we should equally accept the related weaknesses. It indicates that every man that has a strength would also have a weakness that is likely closely related to the strength. A person who is very meticulous and detailed will most likely be petty & 'naggy' One who is easy going, playful and easily forgiving will most likely be carefree and laid back A sanguine sanguine who is usually very charismatic and eloquent may be a bad listener and the list goes on and on. So if you like the sanguine, manage the not-so-perfect listener. If you like the the meticulous and organisation freak, manage the petty nag If you like the peaceful, nice and easy going person, manage the not soo detailed part. ...............because its usually a Complete Package.

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