Of Pain and Heartbreaks

What do humans do with pain and heartbreaks?

Who do they talk to about it?

To God?

To God alone?

To God and man?

To man alone?

To spouse and partner?

To biological family?

To neighbours?

To local spiritual family?

To spiritual family, universal?

To only clergy?

To friends met on Life’s journey?

To colleagues and business partners?

To professionals – counsellors, therapists, and emotional coaches?

To strangers?

To social media?

To God alone?

To God and man?

‘F

O7.08.2021

Comments

My 21st Century Luf!

My Dear, just remain spotless for me and note the following key things for ‘it’ to work. • Abeg, no let dem sack you from your office becos u know say e no go b my fault if I …….. • No form of challenge should come o, it will spoil everything. May e just dey sweet dey go. • No place any demand on my luf, no inconvenience me generali! • No get any form of accident or let hot water pour for your body o because I go gatz waka The Barriers • Temporary distance nah barrier • Weight nah barrier • Family background nah barrier • Lack of cash nah barrier • Height nah barrier * Abeg no forget, no dey commot without make up! ……….no more words, no wonder it lasts for so long!

Still in tears

I knew it wasn’t right. Personal values, societal values and all the works, I didn’t let us grow. We kept it platonic (difficultly so). Our hearts wanted more. Our heads knew better. Only space and time can heal us. I’m utmostly grateful for your THERENESS, Your openness, your romance, your consistency and your maturity. I did it for your clan, for my man for myself & for you. When we meet in future, because I'm sure we will, We’ll catch up on our phases. I will miss you sorely. Still in tears.

You make me wanna write a poem

I'm sure thoughts of you have crossed my mind a gazillion times in the last 6 days I wonder why! When i met you i began to have a secret crush on you ( i wish i knew how successful i was at the 'secret' bit) then you fell in love. I managed myself & depreciated my crush back to platonic levels. We have done well as platonics and i have always imagined it to remain at that level. All of a sudden thoughts of you begin to flood my mind It scarces me I'm forced to put my thoughts on paper Logically, I dont want anything exceeding platonic levels because going by head sense, you dont strike me as my soul mate Yet, the thoughts keep coming, i dont know what to do with them. I wonder if thoughts of' 'us' have ever crossed your mind. Trust me, i wouldn't sacrifice our friendship for these temporal feelings of mine Hopefully, my soulmate will show up before any 'damage' is done. 'Jan '09

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