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Indispensable

• To the CEO who is scared the Company will go down because that ‘key man’ walked out on him
• To the parents who just lost their child
• To the single person who is still in shock that he/she never looked their way
• To the young orphaned child
and to my friend who just lost her husband

The message is simple:
God is the only indispensable being on this planet!
The tears are worth it - therapeutic!
The pain will be there for long
But with TIME, you will move on
somehow

It’s certainly insensitive to try to motivate someone in this light during the trying period especially in the event of loss by death but the painful truth is that we came to this world with nothing(no one) and will leave with nothing(no one).

On the flipside, when we remember we are not indispensable, we will lead humble lives!

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Ms.Understood said…
"...when we remember we are not indispensable, we will lead humble lives!"

God help us, selah!!!

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