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Mu da bam da bam ne! (We are Different!)

I am clearer as to why people see me as different.
  1.  I love reading about Presidents/CEOs and Biographies; soft sells can wait!
  2.  I rarely watch Kim, E or Food network. By default my remote goes to CNN, BBC, Channels, Aljazeera and the likes. Boring? #Stalegist
  3.  Talking about hair, make-up, parties, clothes or shoes for hours? That is not my thing!
  4.  Have I mentioned that I’m no good at small talk? For me, it is absolutely okay to be quiet. Silence is my friend.
  5.  My heart is attached to macro issues. I don’t have a second to spare in the support of racism or tribalism. Nkan to n se mi poju be lo!
  6. My favourite conversations are related to God, Education, Governance, Speeches, Conflict Resolution; Israel-Palestine, Syria, Stopping Boko Haram, the Marine, the Seal, bringing an end to exam mal-practice in Nigeria and Love.
If you spend time engaging in activities that don’t work for me, it is absolutely okay as long as it works for you.

All we need to do is to respect our individual differences.
#datzall

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